Retirement Plan, Yarn?
A joke about children as a "retirement plan" hides a real question: what do Filipino youth feel they owe their families, and why?
Is helping family a debt we feel, or a duty we were handed? Notes on gratitude, obligation, and the homes that raised us.
Read in order, or start with the part that sounds like your house.
What utang na loob is, where it comes from, and what it is not.
Family obligation, across borders and under pressure.
Parents, children, and how the study tests the connection.
What the numbers can and cannot tell us.
A joke about children as a "retirement plan" hides a real question: what do Filipino youth feel they owe their families, and why?
It is not a loan, and it is not just "thank you." A plain-language tour of one of the most discussed ideas in Filipino psychology.
Utang na loob makes more sense once you see the self the way kapwa does: as part of a "we."
Gratitude research from outside the Philippines helps explain why "paying back" can never fully capture what thankfulness is.
Family obligation is not only money. It is also the quiet work of being answerable for people you love.
Respect and care for parents exists in many cultures, but it changes with place, era, and stage of life.
These essays grow out of a BS Psychology research proposal at the University of Caloocan City. The study will test whether a stronger sense of utang na loob goes with a stronger sense of family obligation.
Read the study at a glance →